Kissing and hugging
Back rubs, foot rubs, & body rubs while partially dressed
Listening to music and/or dancing together
Playing strip poker or spin-the-bottle
Striking, brushing, or playing with each other's hair
Caressing, tickling, pinching, & nibbling each other through clothes
Reading erotic literature together
Looking at erotic pictures together
Watching erotic movies on the VCR
Talking sexy or fantasies
Dry humping
Undressing each other or watching each other undress
Showering together
Kissing or licking or fondling (except for genitals or anus)
Rubbing any nonpetroleum-based body oil or lotion on each other or yourself
Stroking, caressing, & fondling (including genitals and anus)
Mutual or simultaneous masturbation to orgasm with your hands
(with or without condoms, with no exchange of semen or vaginal fluids)
Mutual or simultaneous masturbation with a vibrator (no sharing!)
Rubbing your penis against healthy, unbroken skin on your partner's body, between the breasts, lower thighs or buttocks, making sure not to ejaculate in or on your partner's body orifices
Rubbing your vulva against healthy, unbroken skin on your partner's body, avoiding contact with your partner's body orifices
Oral sex (fellatio) while wearing a condom
Vaginal or anal penetration with a sex toy (no sharing!)
Masturbating while your partner watches or holds you
Bodypainting with nonpetroleum-based body paints
Holding each other
Sleeping together
Eating breakfast, lunch, or dinner in bed
Starting over